01 Sept 2009

Almost months have gone by and I have not written anything here. And to think, there was a time almost two years back, there was a frantic rush to post more and more :) . I write in hopes that somebody will read my words, and be inspired to write something better. ...I esp Thank Amu (Amrita) for always givin d required motivation to me for writing blogs :) and all my dearest and sweetest Blog readers.

This Blog article is about fictitious character.. Just needed to put an emphasis on the word "Lies". Whatz real in it is "The content"... " The Topic" ------ "Liars - Lies and Damn Lies" :)

People lie.. That's a bare fact.. But i can still get hurt if people lie to me, right? My heart tells me dat "You are doing yourself a dis-service by blaming and pointing the finger. He is what he is. You knew that. All folks lie and deceive. You know that too. If you learn anything from this experience, know this....HE DID NOT LOVE YOU!! People dont lie or Hide things from those they love, love does not allow it. Love is trusting, open, genuine, sincere, humble, generous, giving, supportive, warm, embracing and honest. "

Ego is the answer. People lie or Hide things like that to look better in your eyes and in their own. It makes them feel better to know you have a higher opinion of themselves.

Pathological liars usually have little of no self-identity, and desperately crave "external approval", so as to have that substitute for self-identity. They will desperately try to be "who" and "what" they think will garner approval.

Love is not, for such people, a shared emotion. It's something that they desperately need, in order to define themselves, and have some delusional sense that they're "worthwhile".

Such people are incapable of really loving. They aren't whole, and can't love or accept themselves, so how could they possibly love someone else?

My Mind tells me dat " You did it all to yourself, and are trying to blame him for being a liar instead of blaming yourself for being a sucker. Blaming him for being who he is is childish. You make it sound like it was pretty evident, and then follow it up to say that you took him back...so really, is any of that HIS fault? Nope. He's a liar, and he is what he is. He's a liar and you're a fool. So who's more to blame? U.

And for what it's worth...lying ain't reserved for MALES only. FEMALES do just as much lying as their counterparts do, and that's just a fact :-)
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Point the finger where it needs to be pointed...right back at YOU.

But Then al of a sudden My Heart Reminds me " Remember it's their disease not yours and don't let it infect you!!!"



With my writing, whatever inspires me to write something a certain ... Under the eyes of God, let's just say—I felt like a piece of shit.