16 sept, 2009

Maids, servants or domestic helpers, however you wish to call them...


Surprised??? dat m writin a blog on my Maid Servant... Y shudnt I? ... We in our busy schedule usually 4get to appreciate the help we get from our Maids. I have an old woman working @ my Home, and i am really impressed with the patience, sincerity, faithfulness she shows in her work. She does most of the work and is a GREAT help for me. She gets paid a 1000 Rs/- per month..But all of us get paid for working..dnt We??? I just make sure that I give her food to eat and a cup of hot TEA which rejenuvates her. I tell her the things that I need her to do. If there is something that I need her to correct, I show her the way how to do rather shouting at her.


Servents help us. They save us from hard labour and fatigue. If they are honest and pay attention to their work,they should be meted with a humanly treatement.

But we should also ensure that they do not misunderstand our kindness and good behaviour.
So i think it would be proper on our part to treat them kindly and at the same time keep a close vigile on their character and performence.

I think it is important to develop and maintain a good relationship with our helpers primarily because we basically trust them with our lives, our household, our material possessions, our health. We may not realize it but they are vital parts of our lives. Treating them right is like assuring yourself that you are in good hands; for maltreating them might eventually lead them to think of revenge or other forms of danger.

..........Maids, servants or domestic helpers, however you wish to call them, are unsung heroes in my book. I hope more people will feel the same way I do. :)

10 Sept, 2009

07-sept-2009

Have to admit, I was taken aback by the title of a blog I saw. It can be found by searching for Marriage on Google n d title was "...I Hate My Husband" . What a sad story! This happens when we think more negatively than positively about our own relationship with our husband.

We should decide, then and there, to put into action a thought about focusing on the good things. It's all about perspective. "Garbage in=garbage out!" When we choose to dwell on "whatsoever things are lovely, pure, and of good report..." it affects our whole outlook.

So, it's time for some serious reflections on the man I married... and why I CHOOSE to LOVE him! :-*

I know that people need to hear the message that love is a choice! Marriages are suffering; husband and wife relationships are strained--and people often buy into the lie that they can and should end their marriage based on how they feel or don't feel. What ever happened to commitment, what about the vows made at the altar?

An year later, I still CHOOSE to love my husband :-P . REASONS r :----

1. He's heavenly-minded!


2. He's Hot-Blooded! ( Temper wise :P)


3. He's a loving, supportive Husband.


4. He has characteristics Like my DAD!


5. He's a Four-wheeling Fanatic! ( Any New launchd car he sees..hez like "Honey! we Gonna buy dis someday )


6. He's NOT a People Person! ( dat makes him stand apart from Liars - Diplomats and Hypocrates)


7. He is What he is His.


8. He always knows the “right” thing to say -- he’s reasonable.


9. He is always cool, calm, and collected.


10. He is always giving 110 percent.


11. He Brought Me Breakfast in Bed!


12. He Did "Show & Tell" dat "He Loves Me".


13. Tells "I Love U" atleast 10times a dat.


14. He's a Competitive Sports Player! (Though doesnt Go to office jus for some silly match organized by d company durin d weekends ...@ d cost of leaving me alone @ home :) ].


15. He has a Pleasant Voice! ( I fell in love wid his voice 1st...even without seeing him)


16. He Can Sing! ............ lol CANNOT SING.


17. Shows interest in what I feel is important in life.


18. SUPPORTS ME.


19. Compliments me often.


20. Admit His mistakes; Is Not afraid to be humble. Peel away his pride.


21. When something goes wrong, instead of assessing blame, He focuses on how to do better.


22. He's my "Hottie"!


23. His shoulders and chest make for a great pillow.

No I’m not living in a fairly tale. My life is not all roses and champagne. I consider myself to be pretty lucky to have him.

Sometimes with our busy lives, we forget to stop and smell the roses. I know that’s an old cliche, but have you ever actually stopped to smell the roses? You can smell a rose right now, right? And do you remember how beautiful the sun is as it sets? You’re envisioning it now aren’t you? We tend to forget about the beautiful things until somebody actually points them out to us.

Well you live 24/7 (for the most part) with your spouse. Nobody knows him (or her, for you gentlemen readers) better then you. So it’s up to you to remind yourself of the good things. Remember why you got married and why you stay married. Remember why you get a big smile on your face and why your heart skips a beat when you see him at the airport after a few days away. Don’t forget to appreciate the little things.

And don’t forget to recognize the reasons WHY you love your spouse.

Just Like I did.

Hope I live a 100 births with this Man.

04 Sept 2009

Note:

BIL ( Brother in Law) to my brother n Hubby of Mine :-)


I will Miss My brother :( ... I probably won't see my brother until November (2010) because he is not coming home from college unitl then :( Him and I always got along great and it will be sad not to see him much anymore :( Hmmm... I got habituated to parting ways wid him 5yrs bak... SO d Intensity of sadness is not much though :P ... Lol... I made up my heart thinkin dat...yea!!! He has to leave anyways, has to earn a livin for himself...!! hw he is goin to afford his "Wife" Expenses otherwise :-D...

My earliest recollection of my brother goes back to when I was about three or four years of age...I also remember him trying to teach me about fire crackers. He and a friend lit one and gave it to me forgetting to tell me to throw the darn thing and it blew up in my hand somewhat stinging my fingers .... :-O :- .... We then went out into a nearby house to collect the left over blasting caps used during those days. :-P

The relationship with my brother remained quite the same as both of us aged.. I single hand idly ruined his life :-P ... By my bossy activities...me being Elder!

No matter what we did and where we went, we had fun-----actually it was more than fun, it was a relationship which knew no conflict. We never had a fight or a bad word. .... Ok ..dis was a Lie :-P We used to fight like cats n dogs...sometimes to an extent..dat he literaly ran behind me 1s wid a Knife in his hand to Kill me :-O ...... He was mild mannered, soft spoken and kind...unlike me. And DOESNT Have a EGO.
We were different yet similar.

With the Ups n downs of Life ... I saw a stength in him that echoed way past his anxiety. He fought a struggle that was almost super human. Where I would have given up, he fought on. He fought the great fight---inspiring all around him!

There are many things that will bother me about Him not being around. I will not see that smiling face Often.

"I just want you to know that you were the best brother that any could have! I've always wanted to be like you and love you! I will always cherish our time together You will always be part of me! We will meet each other again!

Ur BIL ( Brother in Law) Might not say this to you on ur face... But he wud miss u too. Coz U ver his partner in Crime :-O... And d way U guys bribed me giving those "mentos" Chocolates :-P...."

He always Loved his BIL may be more than me....Whenever my hubby n I used to hav our share of fights...n he if ever comes to knw about it... He always Supports his BIL :-P...... N tells.. " BIL.. My sis is a cracko... Forgive her for her deeds :-O " ..... They Share a sweet bond.... Both being similar in many ways.... And in der eyes... " I am always d culprit" :-P ....

He never had an elder brother...wid whom he can team up wid... May be he sees dat in his BIL.

I Love his BIL too :-P ...

All said n done.....!!!

All the best dear brother..... Till me and Ur BIL gets to see u again..!!!

Love always!!
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PS:

He never reads My blogs.... he comes out with des words when i ask him 2 read my blogs " Com'on sis...U dnt write Sense :-O ... .. n I am not crazy enuf to read ur blogs n Loose my mind too :-P " .... I am sure his BIL is going to Vouch for him in this matter too. B-)

grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

03 Sept, 2009

EAT and Be Merry :)

I had maggi for breakfast today... I simply loveee it!! chahe bachhe ho ya bade...jawan ho ya budhhey....all love maggie noodles....
and there are many diffrent kinds of maggie we all make...some add vegeies to it..some make pakoras etc etc...

own-made maggie recipe.. :P Plz Note it down! :)

hot spicy chiili maggie:
capsicum
onion
carrot
beans
soya sauce
chilli sauce[red or green]
garam masala
salt-oil

method: fry all choped vegetables in oil then add some garam masala and salt..and soya n chilli sauce to it...according to taste...
then add made-maggie as we normally make it..n let it soak the excess water...n hot spicy chilli maggie is ready to eat..serve hot... :-D.

:-D

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pssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssst :-P ... Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz Byo for 2day.

02 Sept 2009

Congrats ZAZAFEEFI :-* Miss ya sweety!!!
http://zabcity.blogspot.com/

reminds me of My Graduation day!! Even I was not super-exicted.. had this "Just another day" feel :P... few yrs down d line.. Now I feel Omg...! shit!! I shud have been runnin wid happiness and shoutin to d world "YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA I GRADUATEDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD" ..... dat shud hav been d spirit

:( ...

Hope u Get a Feel of it TODAY.... coz tomorrowz gona be late :P ...

Best Wishes!! If ya read this!

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The show starts with...

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oye yaar Rakhi, ek tu hi hai..... jo TV pe shadi karne ke liye soch sakti hai. AMEN.

01 Sept 2009

Almost months have gone by and I have not written anything here. And to think, there was a time almost two years back, there was a frantic rush to post more and more :) . I write in hopes that somebody will read my words, and be inspired to write something better. ...I esp Thank Amu (Amrita) for always givin d required motivation to me for writing blogs :) and all my dearest and sweetest Blog readers.

This Blog article is about fictitious character.. Just needed to put an emphasis on the word "Lies". Whatz real in it is "The content"... " The Topic" ------ "Liars - Lies and Damn Lies" :)

People lie.. That's a bare fact.. But i can still get hurt if people lie to me, right? My heart tells me dat "You are doing yourself a dis-service by blaming and pointing the finger. He is what he is. You knew that. All folks lie and deceive. You know that too. If you learn anything from this experience, know this....HE DID NOT LOVE YOU!! People dont lie or Hide things from those they love, love does not allow it. Love is trusting, open, genuine, sincere, humble, generous, giving, supportive, warm, embracing and honest. "

Ego is the answer. People lie or Hide things like that to look better in your eyes and in their own. It makes them feel better to know you have a higher opinion of themselves.

Pathological liars usually have little of no self-identity, and desperately crave "external approval", so as to have that substitute for self-identity. They will desperately try to be "who" and "what" they think will garner approval.

Love is not, for such people, a shared emotion. It's something that they desperately need, in order to define themselves, and have some delusional sense that they're "worthwhile".

Such people are incapable of really loving. They aren't whole, and can't love or accept themselves, so how could they possibly love someone else?

My Mind tells me dat " You did it all to yourself, and are trying to blame him for being a liar instead of blaming yourself for being a sucker. Blaming him for being who he is is childish. You make it sound like it was pretty evident, and then follow it up to say that you took him back...so really, is any of that HIS fault? Nope. He's a liar, and he is what he is. He's a liar and you're a fool. So who's more to blame? U.

And for what it's worth...lying ain't reserved for MALES only. FEMALES do just as much lying as their counterparts do, and that's just a fact :-)
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Point the finger where it needs to be pointed...right back at YOU.

But Then al of a sudden My Heart Reminds me " Remember it's their disease not yours and don't let it infect you!!!"



With my writing, whatever inspires me to write something a certain ... Under the eyes of God, let's just say—I felt like a piece of shit.