04 Sept 2009

Note:

BIL ( Brother in Law) to my brother n Hubby of Mine :-)


I will Miss My brother :( ... I probably won't see my brother until November (2010) because he is not coming home from college unitl then :( Him and I always got along great and it will be sad not to see him much anymore :( Hmmm... I got habituated to parting ways wid him 5yrs bak... SO d Intensity of sadness is not much though :P ... Lol... I made up my heart thinkin dat...yea!!! He has to leave anyways, has to earn a livin for himself...!! hw he is goin to afford his "Wife" Expenses otherwise :-D...

My earliest recollection of my brother goes back to when I was about three or four years of age...I also remember him trying to teach me about fire crackers. He and a friend lit one and gave it to me forgetting to tell me to throw the darn thing and it blew up in my hand somewhat stinging my fingers .... :-O :- .... We then went out into a nearby house to collect the left over blasting caps used during those days. :-P

The relationship with my brother remained quite the same as both of us aged.. I single hand idly ruined his life :-P ... By my bossy activities...me being Elder!

No matter what we did and where we went, we had fun-----actually it was more than fun, it was a relationship which knew no conflict. We never had a fight or a bad word. .... Ok ..dis was a Lie :-P We used to fight like cats n dogs...sometimes to an extent..dat he literaly ran behind me 1s wid a Knife in his hand to Kill me :-O ...... He was mild mannered, soft spoken and kind...unlike me. And DOESNT Have a EGO.
We were different yet similar.

With the Ups n downs of Life ... I saw a stength in him that echoed way past his anxiety. He fought a struggle that was almost super human. Where I would have given up, he fought on. He fought the great fight---inspiring all around him!

There are many things that will bother me about Him not being around. I will not see that smiling face Often.

"I just want you to know that you were the best brother that any could have! I've always wanted to be like you and love you! I will always cherish our time together You will always be part of me! We will meet each other again!

Ur BIL ( Brother in Law) Might not say this to you on ur face... But he wud miss u too. Coz U ver his partner in Crime :-O... And d way U guys bribed me giving those "mentos" Chocolates :-P...."

He always Loved his BIL may be more than me....Whenever my hubby n I used to hav our share of fights...n he if ever comes to knw about it... He always Supports his BIL :-P...... N tells.. " BIL.. My sis is a cracko... Forgive her for her deeds :-O " ..... They Share a sweet bond.... Both being similar in many ways.... And in der eyes... " I am always d culprit" :-P ....

He never had an elder brother...wid whom he can team up wid... May be he sees dat in his BIL.

I Love his BIL too :-P ...

All said n done.....!!!

All the best dear brother..... Till me and Ur BIL gets to see u again..!!!

Love always!!
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PS:

He never reads My blogs.... he comes out with des words when i ask him 2 read my blogs " Com'on sis...U dnt write Sense :-O ... .. n I am not crazy enuf to read ur blogs n Loose my mind too :-P " .... I am sure his BIL is going to Vouch for him in this matter too. B-)

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