Sometimes our loved ones hurt us.
These are some of the big hurts in life that leave us wondering how we will ever heal. But there are little hurts too that can build into mountains of resentment if we don't address them. Hurts such as, angry words exchanged during an argument, a friend neglects your friendship, people take you for granted in the moment of hurt and frustration.
What we can do here...what i have atleast learnt is....
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Forgive: we need to forgive so that we can move on with life. Forgiving does not mean that we condone dos pplz ' behavior. It does not mean that we allow others to keep hurting us. To forgive means to give up all resentment and the desire to punish the other person. In our heart, it means we've cancelled the dëbt we feel others owe us. Sometimes the only way to know love is to experience what love is not. Whatever the question, challenge or decision, love is always the answer.
The main thing to remember is that it is not you're fault. You did not do anything to make this person hurt you. These are merely signs to help you come to an understanding of how you fell into the trap and ways you can get out of it if you are still in.
If you think that God doesn't hear you Then that, is really a shame Not only does He hear every prayer you say; But He knows you, by your name. It does not matter just where you are When you call upon the Lord.
If someone is a threat to you or harms you always remember that if you forgive them god will prevail and punish them for what they have done to you. ...Pukka se :) aaj nahi tho may be 5-10 years after.....!